Dangerous feeding and sleep advice exposed by BBC investigation

On Tuesday 5th May 2026, the BBC News Investigations team revealed the results of their investigation into the unregulated world of infant sleep ‘experts’:

“Some self-described infant sleep experts are giving advice that could put babies at risk of serious harm and even death, medical professionals have told a BBC investigation.”

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/ce84e1vn1l2o

“Health Secretary Wes Streeting has said the government plans to close this loophole across the U.K., by restricting individuals from using the term ‘nurse’ to describe themselves, unless they are properly qualified. It follows an inquest into the death of football manager Steve Bruce’s four-month-old grandson Madison Bruce Smith. A coroner concluded the baby had died, “whilst asleep in his cot having been placed prone in an unsafe sleep position” by someone who described themselves as a maternity nurse.”

A client of mine contacted me when the tragic news of baby Madison’s death was first reported. She still feels very upset about her own experience with a maternity nurse she hired after the birth of her first son. My client felt shocked but not surprised that the maternity nurse who gave such dangerous advice to baby Madison’s parents works for the same company as the person she hired. My client has kindly given me permission to share the email she has written to the BBC team.

Subject: Thank You for Highlighting an Urgent Issue - My Personal Experience

Date: 5 May 2026 at 09:53:15

To: ParentingInvestigation@bbc.co.uk

Dear Divya and the BBC team,

I am writing to thank you for your recent article raising awareness about unregulated baby sleep consultants and maternity care practices. This is an issue incredibly close to my heart, and I truly appreciate you bringing it into the public conversation.

I am a mother of two young sons, and my experience with a well-known, high-profile maternity nurse - someone who often works with celebrities and charges a significant fee - was one of the most distressing periods of my life. At the time, I believed I was hiring someone to support me in caring for my newborn and to help guide me through breastfeeding, something I had long hoped and planned for.

Instead, the experience left me traumatised.

The advice I received was not only misguided but, in my view, dangerous. I was encouraged to let my baby cry for extended periods - sometimes hours - without comfort, and was told I needed to ignore it and leave the house. My breastfeeding journey was completely derailed. I was pushed to pump and provide bottles so that feeds could be measured in ounces, rather than supported to feed my baby naturally and responsively.

During this time, I became seriously unwell on multiple occasions. I developed severe mastitis that went unrecognised and unsupported, leading to hospitalisation.

Even then, the guidance I received remained focused on control and routine, rather than my health or my baby's wellbeing.

When I became pregnant again just eight months later, I was determined to do things differently. With the support of a Breastfeeding Counsellor I had build a close relationship with, I rebuilt my understanding and confidence. With my second son, I followed a responsive, nurturing approach-feeding on demand, keeping him close, and co-sleeping safely. The difference was profound. We have a strong, secure bond, and that experience has been deeply healing for me.

However, I have also had to work incredibly hard to repair the bond with my first son and process the guilt and trauma from those early months. No mother should be made to feel that harmful practices are normal or necessary.

I am sharing my story because I know I am not alone. Too many women are led to believe that this kind of treatment is acceptable, particularly in an industry that remains largely unregulated. I also understand that the maternity nurse I worked with has been referenced in recent reporting relating to the training of another nurse involved in a tragic case, involving the death of a baby in her care. This only deepens my concern that stronger oversight and accountability are urgently needed.

I do not want my experience to be in vain. If sharing my story can help protect other families or contribute to meaningful change, I would welcome that. I would be more than happy to speak further or have my experience published if it would support your ongoing reporting on this issue.

Thank you again for shining a light on something so important.

Warm regards,